Dear Future

Dear future boyfriend,

- you’re not allowed to have the passcode to my phone 

- you’re not allowed to tell me what to wear/call me a slut for what i wear. you’re my boyfriend not my keeper

- under no circumstances can you put your hands on me unless I say it’s ok

- you’re not allowed to tell me what I can and cannot do with my body and life. If I wanna cut or dye or straighten my hair or wear 5 layers or nothing at all, I will. If I wanna travel and you wanna stay where you are cool, I’m not staying with you

- I will not depend on you for everything

- I will not put up with mind games

treat me the way you’d want your future daughter to be treated. treat me the way I treat you

- I will not drop everything I’m doing to be with you

- I will not compete for you

- Dependency isn’t cute. Clingyness isn’t cute.

- I won’t tolerate secondhand compliments

-I will not beg you to stay